My stumbling experiences perched on the high heels of life...
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Reading the "Signs"
Ever since my one of my best friends introduced me to "Sun-Signs" by Linda Goodman in my first semester of college, I have been hooked. I wouldn't say I believe in all those daily predictions that come in the newspapers for the different signs, but as far as the basic characteristics associated with each of the signs are concerned, I have found a lot of examples that fit. I lov studying people and so I have learnt a lot about certain behavioral patterns of the sunsigns I have come most in contact with.
So, I decided to share my insight into these here at my blog. I will be sharing one sunsign with each post. I invite you all to share your views on the signs and even your experiences with them either in the comments section, or even by mail (I would love to publish them here)
Cancerians: 1)Extremely sensitive 2)Extremely caring 3)Extremely family oriented 4)Extremely vindictive ....a lot of "extremely"s there, but when it comes to cancerians, nothing is less than "extreme"
They are the best moms, the best cooks and there is something about them that makes u want to share your deepest secrets with them they have great intuition and they love to say I told you so ;) they are great when it comes to taking important decisions when it comes to handling finance, well, they know what they are doing they can be quite adamant about what they think is right and can be self-righteous(some people would call that an understatement) not very independent by nature, but when it comes down to it, they know how to stand strong come what may. they love getting pampered (yes we all do, but to them its as important as air and water to most of us) they love getting gifts and will never forget someone who gave them one, or for that matter someone who didn't they can also get a little too easily swayed by praise and a little expert buttering ;)
But they can also be really really controlling, they never accept their mistake, they never accept that they never accept their mistakes, they are usually very impatient, they are big time cribbers but can also be extremely resilient when it counts they can use what u share with them against u if u cross them, don't realize what they say when they are angry and they can well, just be tooooooo mushy at times they don't easily understand the concept of "space" in relationships and get hurt if someone asks for it (they take it as an insult to them and to them it translates to "I don't love you, I don't appreciate you and I don't need you anymore" Whatsay??
PS: My mom is a cancerian and I love her. I couldn't have asked for a better mother. We have had our little tiffs and taffs but she has learnt to live with my need for "space" and my wierdness and from trying to get me to "behave", today she is my biggest supporter in letting me do my thing. She loves me for what I am and trust me thats a feat I sometimes find difficult to accomplish. On my end, I have learnt to respect her for her strength and the sacrifices she has made for her belief and love in her family. I haven't said it often enough but inspite of her flaws (very very minute ones mom) she is the strongest woman I know...she is my ideal and I know I could spend a lifetime trying, but I can never be like her